Kids are kids! As a mum of four little monsters I can tell you each kid is different and of course special in his or her own way! Some are little bit more difficult to handle than the rest. But here are some key tips that I will like to share with all the mums out there! Because I know the struggle is real!
Eldest kid is your key
Your eldest kid regardless, whether they are a girl or a boy is your key to bringing up the kids well. If you want to be able to bring up your kids in a proper manner ensure that you first teach all the values and manners for your first. They will be the leaders in the family automatically because they are the eldest. In any household the eldest one will be the one who makes all the rules. So if you are able to discipline the eldest then you will have a better chance of keeping the household under control as all the others will follow suit.
Delegate to them
Kids love responsibilities. They love it when they are treated as adults and given work for them. They cannot wait to grow up! When you give them their due respect and delegate to them some work, they feel important. This feeling of recognition that they are getting from you will be enough to make even the most notorious kid to listen to you. Just like the rest of us, kids want to be recognized and appreciated even if the job seems little to us. You need t always encourage them and appreciate them while delegating to them tasks that they feel important doing. When I want to buy vape juice online. I get my son to do it for me. Just clicking the order now button makes him feel important! So such little things can actually mean a lot to them.
Don’t allow for excuses
However, when it comes to grooming kids you need to be very strict with the way they behave. You cannot allow for any excuses when they are repeatedly doing the same mistakes. You need to implement a rewarding and punishment system that will teach them the different reactions that they will get by their different deeds. And keep in mind that a ‘no’ should always remain to be a ‘no’. By changing your own words you will be digging your own grave. As once kids learn that they can manipulate you with some crying or tantrums that is what they will be doing each time! Let’s say for instance you need to have your vaporizer on a shelf for easy access and one of your kids keeping moving it to a different place, each time he or she does it let them know that it is a very wrong act and has earned them a punishment like an extra chore. They need to be taught that it is wrong each and every time!
Be their best friend!
You should also be their best friend! As finally, you are their parent and they need to be able to get all the love and care from you first! You need to be their best friend. So always be friendly towards them and make sure that you talk to them nicely and always share your shareable secrets with them. That will make them entrust you with their own secrets!